EJ is Mother Dearest
24 January 2026
10m 11s
#6: Having their back
00:00
10:11
The Off Script Parent
Having Their Back
What does “having your child’s back” actually mean?
Because it’s not blindly defending bad behaviour.
It’s not storming into school shouting “MY CHILD WOULD NEVER.”
And it’s definitely not raising kids who think consequences don’t apply to them.
This episode is about something quieter — and far more important.
Having your child’s back means:
- keeping connection without excusing behaviour
- validating feelings without removing consequences
- staying calm, curious, and honest when they mess up
- making sure they know they’re supported, even when they’re wrong
We talk about why over-defending kids backfires, how entitlement is created, and what actually helps children grow into accountable, emotionally safe adults.
This is about the long game — so your child still comes to you when it really matters.
🛍 New merch drop live — link in my instagram Bio or you can check it out here
https://the-off-script-parent-by-mother-dearest.myshopify.com/
If there’s a quote from the podcast you want on a tee, DM or email me.
⚠️ Strong language throughout.
📩 Email: theoffscriptparent@gmail.com
📸 Instagram: @ej_is_mother_dearest or @https://www.instagram.com/the_off_script_parent_podcast/